A Good Man is Hard to Find

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The selfishness of a persons actions
The grandmother in "A good man is hard to find," by Flannery O'Connor. dosenn’t value
what she has in her life, but instead wants what has been left behind. She is a prim and proper lady dressed in a suit, hat, and white cotton gloves. This woman will do whatever it takes to get what she wants and she doesn't let anyone else's feelings stand in her way.
The grandmother is a manipulative, deceitful, and self-serving
woman who lives in the past. She trys to justify her demands by convincing
herself and her family that her way is not only the best way, but the only way.
The grandmother is determined to change her family's vacation destination as she tries
to manipulate her son into going to Tennessee instead of Florida. She began trying to
make Bailey, her son, feel guilty about the children's safety for there was a murder on the
loose. The grandmother says that "she couldn't answer to her conscience if she took the
children in a direction where there was a convict on the loose." She is not success-ful with
Bailey, so she uses the same antics on her daughter-in-law who doesn't even acknowledge
her. Before she has a chance to work on the children, they tell her "stay at home if you
don't want to go." The randmother then decides that she will have to go along after all, but
she is already working on her own agenda.
The grandmother is very deceitful, and she manages to sneak the cat in the car with her
even though she knows Bailey does not "like to arrive at a motel with a cat." She decides
that she would like to visit an old plantation and begins her pursuit of convincing Bailey to
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agree to it. She describes the old house for the children adding mysterious details to pique
their curiosity. "There was a secret panel in this house," she states craftily knowing it is a
lie, and not really wanting to, but she is determined to see the house. The grandmother
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